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PAUL STANLEY speaks up for the LGBTQ+ Pride month: 'everybody has a right to be who they are'


TMZ caught up with KISS frontman Paul Stanley in the Beverly Glen neighborhood of Los Angeles, California and asked him about governor Gavin Newsom‘s proclamation declaring June 2023 as “LGBTQ+ Pride Month” in the State of California. This month — and every month — California stands with the lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ+) community as they take pride in who they are and whom they love.

Paul said: “Everybody has a right to be who they are. Life’s too short to be anyone else… Everybody should celebrate who they are. Be proud of who you are as long as it’s something worth being proud of… What’s the criteria for being proud is being a good person, not transgender or any other gender.”

In late April, Stanley came under fire for sharing what some people characterized as “misinformation” about gender-affirming care for youths, saying that “irreversible” procedures shouldn’t be performed on children. “There is a BIG difference between teaching acceptance and normalizing and even encouraging participation in a lifestyle that confuses young children into questioning their sexual identification,” Stanley wrote.

He added that adults “may decide reassignment is their needed choice,” but said that children should not be eligible for gender-affirming surgeries and procedures. “Turning this into a game or parents normalizing it as some sort of natural alternative or believing that because a little boy likes to play dress up in his sister’s clothes or a girl in her brother’s, we should lead them steps further down a path that’s far from the innocence of what they are doing,” he wrote.

Closing his statement, Stanley claimed that too many parents were confusing “teaching acceptance with normalizing and encouraging a situation that has been a struggle for those truly affected and have turned it into a sad and dangerous fad.”

A few other rock musicians publicly supported Stanley‘s comments, including TWISTED SISTER frontman Dee Snider, who tweeted: “You know what? There was a time where I ‘felt pretty’ too. Glad my parents didn’t jump to any rash conclusions!” Phil Labonte, lead vocalist of the metal band ALL THAT REMAINS, tweeted, “Paul is right.” And pro wrestler Chris Jericho — who fronts FOZZY — retweeted Stanley‘s statement without additional comment, to his 3.5 million followers.

Some pointed out that KISS, which was co-founded by Stanley in 1973, was pioneering in breaking down the taboos surrounding men wearing makeup and feminine clothing.

THE OFFSPRING guitarist Noodles, whose real name is Kevin Wasserman, wrote on Twitter: “This is a very disappointing take, especially from someone who wore high-heels, makeup, & teased up hair his whole career. As a young kid your band helped teach me that I could be whatever I wanted to be. I guess it was just gimmickry after all.”

In a follow-up statement on May 4, Stanley walked back his previous statement, saying: “I support those struggling with their sexual identity while enduring constant hostility and those whose path leads them to reassignment surgery. It’s hard to fathom the kind of conviction that one must feel to take those steps.”

Closing his latest statement, Stanley opted not to clarify his original comments, insisting that social media may not be the best place for genuine discourse. “A paragraph or two will remain far too short to fully convey my thoughts or point of view, so I will leave that for another time and place,” he wrote.

In April, outspoken conservative rocker Ted Nugent shared a tweet in which he denounced the existence of transgender people and told people they could “debate” him if they disagreed.

“There is no such thing as transgender. You cannot change your gender. Comfortably numb is actually uncomfortably dumb. Debate me but bring your bib,” he wrote.

KISS final shows will take place in America. Tickets are available now.

Fall 2023 tour dates:
October 29 – Austin, TX – Moody Center

November 01 – Palm Springs, CA – Acrisure Arena
November 03 – Los Angeles, CA – Hollywood Bowl
November 06 – Seattle, WA – Climate Pledge Arena
November 08 – Vancouver, BC – Rogers Arena
November 10 – Edmonton, AB – Rogers Place
November 12 – Calgary, AB – Scotiabank Saddledome
November 13 – Saskatoon, SK – SaskTel Centre
November 15 – Winnipeg, MB – Canada Life Centre
November 18 – Montreal, QC – Centre Bell
November 19 – Quebec, QC – Videotron Centre
November 21 – Ottawa, ON – Canadian Tire Centre
November 22 – Toronto, ON – Scotiabank Arena
November 24 – Knoxville, TN – Thompson-Boling Arena
November 25 – Indianapolis. IN – Gainbridge Fieldhouse
November 27 – Rosemont, IL – Allstate Arena
November 29 – Baltimore, MD – CFG Bank Arena
December 01 – New York, NY – Madison Square Garden
December 02 – New York, NY -Madison Square Garden

KISS launched its farewell trek in January 2019 but was forced to put it on hold in 2020 due to the COVID-19 pandemic.

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